Coming to Meet

Hexagram 44 of 64
Judgment · 卦辞
Coming to Meet. The girl is strong. Do not take such a girl.
姤,女壯,勿用取女。
Commentary on the Judgment · 彖传
Encounter: the weak meets the strong.
姤,遇也,柔遇剛也。
Image · 象传
Wind under heaven: meeting. The ruler issues commands and proclaims them to the four quarters.
天下有風,姤。后以施命誥四方。

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Six Lines · 六爻
Line 1
Held by a metal brake — perseverance brings good fortune. Going anywhere else brings misfortune. The lean pig struggles and stamps.
系于金柅,贞吉。有攸往,见凶。赢豕孚蹢躅。
Bound to the metal curb; the yielding path is checked.
系于金柅,柔道牵也。
Line 2
A fish kept wrapped — no blame. Not favorable for guests.
包有鱼,无咎,不利宾。
The basket contains fish; it is not fitting to share with guests.
包有鱼,义不及宾也。
Line 3
No skin on the thighs, walking with difficulty. Danger — no great blame.
臀无肤,其行次且,厉无大咎。
Its movement halts, the action is not yet guided.
其行次且,行未牵也。
Line 4
No fish in the wrapper — stirring brings misfortune.
包无鱼,起凶。
The misfortune of no fish means distancing from the people.
无鱼之凶,远民也。
Line 5
Wrapping the melon in broad leaves — hidden brilliance; a gift falls from heaven.
以杞包瓜,含章,有陨自天。
The fifth line holds elegance, centered and correct. Something falls from heaven, but the will does not abandon fate.
九五含章,中正也。有陨自天,志不舍命也。
Line 6
Meeting with the horns — humiliation, no blame.
姤其角,吝,无咎。
Meeting at the horn, the top reaches difficulty.
姤其角,上穷吝也。
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